Things are going smoothly in Shanghai, except for one minor hitch. I had to give my kids a stern talking to about why I was angry and very strict on Thursday. I did very well and was able to get them to shape up. They seem much more diligent and obedient (in a good way). I hate having to discipline, but I will if I must and i know how to use psychology to make it effective. To answer your question Lloyd, they are a bit interested in what students do in America, but they hold no particular interest in Asian Americans. They are the typical angsty, nonchalant teenagers that are often seen in America. They are apathetic towards most issues and seem to regurgitate whatever points that I make to them. I would love for them to think on their own, but perhaps they are too young to have formed their own beliefs. I am spending more time with my students out of class and I must say that I find it enjoyable "hanging out" with them. Today we will be going out on an adventure, perhaps bowling. One student and her parents have actually invited me for dinner on Sunday. I feel honored, but at the same time awkward. I believe I develop deep relationships with my students, but after developing such a relationship, I am unsure about what direction I should head towards. I tend to lose contact with people over time, yet I feel I must guide my kids throughout their education. Have I become a mentor? or simply a close friend? Whatever the case may be, I have only a week left to leave them with something memorable. Also on a slightly related note, one of my roommate's students likes me. The majority of the girls in the Shanghai program like my roommate. It's a very interesting dilemma. It's also interesting to se how people in China are so easily embarassed.
I have been going out *socializing*, but I need to spend more time looking for gifts for friends before I return to Hong Kong to teach. Thank you all for the comments. Terrance, I too have a Wilbur Pan CD on my computer and the only Shanghainese I know is very hungry and very full. Have an amazing summer my friends. I will try to keep up the writing and attempt to reduce the grammatical errors in it. Ciao.